I had a bit of a scare last night.
Well to be exact, Me and Laura had a bit of a scare.
What started out as a bit of a laugh, turned into something a bit more sinister.
In the light of a new day I still feel a bit nervy.
It has made me realize that having my personal details out in full view on the net, can make you a bit vulnerable.
So can using my name as my user name.
Maybe I should change a few things.
It all started last night about 6.30pm.
I had a text message on my mobile.
"Hi babe, I've got a new number."
I don't have anyone to call me babe, so I knew it was a wrong number.
I told Laura to text him back and tell him so.
We made a big mistake.!!!!
Thought we'd have a bit of a laugh.
"That's very interesting, but who are you??" we put.
He came back with "Guess sexy"
I know, I know.!! We should have stopped then. We didn't.
We carried on for an hour.
We did at one point think it might be one of my lads having a bit of a joke.
Me and Laura were in hysterics, at one point.
This person said he was going to have a shower. We asked him if he was playing with his rubber duckie.
I cringe now at some of the stuff we said.
Then he rang.
Oh God! He actually rang. More than once.
Laura answered. She put on this foreign sounding voice. I was laughing in the background. Laura said he was not.!!! He sounded serious.!!!!
What were we thinking. Playing a dangerous game with a complete stranger.
How old am I again!!!!
I asked him where did he get my number from.
He said he already knew it. WTH.!!!
Was it someone I knew.???? Had I given someone my number.????
The last time he rang and started heavy breathing down the phone, we stopped it dead. No more texting. No more phoning. How stupid were we.???
Suddenly an E-mail came through asking about one of our caravan's.
Too much of a coincidence. We think so.We advertise our caravans on a couple of websites. My contact details are on there.
I think that's where he had my number from.
The way it was written, a mixture of capital letters and baby letters. We knew it was him.
We had a name and a profile, although no details.
I did reply and gave him the prices and everything, just in case it was genuine. Didn't want to be rude to a possible guest. I signed it in Keith's name. He couldn't reply then.
Everything has been quiet since.
Nothing this morning. No E-mails. Just 870 alerts.!!! No text messages.
But it scared me so much I made sure our house was locked up tight last night.
I've learned my lesson.
Any more wrong numbers. Ignore them.!!!!!
Take care.
Carolxx
22 comments:
That is scary...be careful!!!!!!
I hope the prankster whoeverhe was has given up on you now!! Play with fire Carol and you surely get burned LOL!! I see the funny side of it too,but watch it theres some real weido's about in days world.Then again it might have just been someone wishful thinking they would dorp lucky on Valenties day.LOL.I won't ask you if you had a good one LOL!!Hope you have a good day today.Take Care God Bless Kath astoriasand http://journals.aol.co.uk/astoriasand/MYSIMPLERHYMES
That is scary ... I probably would've responded with you got the wrong number. I'm also careful how much information I give. Unfortunately with my business I have a lot of it out there. On the other hand, I've been blessed with really good customers.
Monica
Do I have to give you the speech I give to Nicci? LOL Only kidding with you! I can see where it started out fun, but it could have turned out so bad. Have a good day!
Missie
Close call, Carol. Glad you got out of that one
That was a very dangerous thing to do. Glad that it stopped. Helen
Oh my goodness!!! How frightening! Glad it had a safe ending! We do put ourselves very much at risk these days. I tend to think of everyone as being nice until they prove to be otherwise, but really we musn't do that as there are some very wicked people out there and the world is ever so much a bigger place than it used to be!
Marie
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Oh Carol, that's awful. There are some very strange and very bad folk out there. Stop beating yourself up over It tho! It's done and you can't change It. If you gat him again, I am sure he will get bored after you Ignore him. Don't worry, he has probably vanished for good now.Maybe the two were connected and after seeing your man's details, he has ran scared. Love Pam xx
well, i understand perfectly how that whole thing came about....just be more careful in the future!!!!!
Geesh, that is scary - you just never know who is at the other end! Be careful and I hope you don't do this again. (Don't I sound like your mother!)
xx
Lisa
I would be frightened as well. About 10 years ago I had been talking online to a guy that I thought was a friend. He started to get the wrong idea about us and I told him I appreciated his friendship but there was nothing more to it than that. He got angry and started somehow contacting everyone I knew online sending them IM's he claimed I had written, but didn't have a clue about. When people I knew started blocking him, he ended up with my phone #.
I hung up on him numerous times and told him it was harrassment. The final blow was when I recieved a email from him stating he knew where I lived and knew what my daughter looked like to beware. He threatened to bomb my house. I went to the police with the information. I had printed out all the threats, taped him on the phone you name it. They contacted him and it finally stopped. It frightened me enough it was over a year before I went online again. (Hugs) Indigo
Congrats on being a guest editor's pick. -Dawn-
Congratulations on being Guest Editor's Pick!
Congratulations on being a Guest Editor Pick
Take care
Yasmin
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Congrats on being a Guest Ed pick!
Have a great weekend & lovely upcoming week.
Hugz,
Sugar
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Well girls will be girls, huh? Glad nothing happened from it. I see by the comments you are guest editors pick so I'll say congrats. I do enjoy reading your journal. Paula
You certainly did learn a lesson. I used to use my master SN on the message boards but then googled it one day. There were two in the US and one had my exact name, phone number and address. Then I switched to a couple of different names and ended up with this one as a joke. I never ever put my last name up in the public. There are too many weirdo's. We had to block the texts on our cell phone. There were coming in with porn sites. I love the internet but it can sure make for some hazards. xx Chris
congrats on being a guest editor's pick!
this sounded like a scary thing!! I know this time around in my journaling, I'm keeping a lot of personal details out of my entries including my son's/husband's name, etc. There just are lots of weird people out there
betty
congrats on being a fellow guest editors pick. sorry you got a scare. but there are some very strange folk around. you take care and be safe mort x
Yes, I think that was a lesson learned! Hope you don't hear from him again.
Congratulations on being one of Pam's picks last week!
Lori
Just came by to see if I was missing alerts to your journal. Looks like it's been quiet around here. Hope all is well with you.
Monica
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Just popped by to thankyou for your kind words whilst I have been offline Carol.I am not back to commenting regular as yet but hope to be shortly.I hope all is well at your end seeing as you havn't done a posting for a while.Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.Take Care God Bless Kath astoriasand http://journals.aol.co.uk/astoriasand/MYSIMPLERHYMES
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