Is it morning all ready.???
I didn't sleep very good last night. I think I was just dozing. Listening for any sound from Adam. His room is across the landing from ours, but next door to Laura's, so one of us would have heard him.
He is still asleep anyway. That will have done him the world of good.
Yesterday started so good, but by late afternoon was full of if onlys.! If only we had gone to Wales like we were going to.!! If only the phone hadn't rung when it did.!!! If only we had started cooking those chocolate coins we were going to make.!!!! If only we hadn't made those paper aeroplanes.!!!!!If only. If only. If only. I could go on all day. At the end of the day, we left him alone with an open fire. 'Nough said.
I decided not to go out yesterday. The house is so untidy, I thought it would be a good idea to spend the day cleaning up.
I did start to catch up on my alerts yesterday morning. Adam was making aeroplanes. The weather was lovely. The rain had stopped. It was sunny. I thought we might be able to get out on the bikes later. Ade was here. Good food. We were gonna have a nice lazy day. It didn't happen.
We only really light the log fire when there is someone to sit and watch it, which is what we were doing. It has a habit of spitting bits out and burning the carpet, plus it goes out very quickly if you don't watch it, so you need someone to keep throwing logs on it. We have a fire guard around it, which was still in place after the accident, so we don't really know how it happened.
The phone rang. I ran upstairs to use the decent phone. The ones downstairs don't have a very good signal. It was another booking. Keith followed me to see what they needed.
Adam came into the bedroom, no screaming, no shouting. Just said his aeroplane had flown in to the fire and flown back out and had burnt his hand.
I sort of shoved him into the bathroom, ran the cold tap on to his hand. He said the aeroplane was still on fire on the carpet. I told him to keep his hand under the cold water and then I quickly ran downstairs to check that the house wasn't on fire. Nothing.
At this stage his hand didn't look too bad. Obviously we could see it was a hospital job. He had lost quite a few layers of skin of his index finger on his right hand, and there was the beginning of a blister on his ring finger. By now Laura and Ade were up. Laura stayed with Adam while I quickly got dressed, collected coats and shoes. Keith went to bring the car round to the front of the house.
We wrapped Adams hand in a wet towel, and took a bottle of water with us to keep pouring on it as we drove. It's a half hour drive to the A&E. It was the longest time you can imagine.
Adam still wasn't crying. I think he must have been in shock.
When we got to the hospital and saw the triage nurse, and we took the towel off. I was in shock. His whole hand was burnt. All of his fingers were blistered, His whole hand was the colour of a tomato.
The nurse gave him some pain relief straight away. She ran cold water into the sink, got a wheelchair and had him sit there with his hand in the water while she took details.
And then we waited, and waited, and waited.
Adam still wasn't crying. He was worried that they would keep him in overnight.
When we did see the doctor, she didn't believe our story, she kept coming back to ask Adam how it happened, so maybe we might get a visit from child protection services. I know they have to be careful.
To be quite honest we know it couldn't have happened how Adam said it did. The fire guard was still in place. We think his plane did go into the fire, but we think he reached over the guard to rescue it. That's when he got burned. He put his hand into the fire. We did ask him, but he got upset, so we just left it. It's done now.
Anyway the doctor told him to keep his hand out of the water so that it would dry a bit before they dressed it.
Then Adam started crying, screaming, jumping up and down. His hand must have still been burning, the blistering was still coming up.
We still had to wait half an hour, and to be honest I think if Adam hadn't been screaming we would have been longer.
They gave him some more pain relief, and smothered his hand in Flamazine, and dressed it in Bactigra, melonin, and double wrapped it in bandages.
Adam was still screaming when we came out of the hospital. He did sleep for a little while on the way home.
We spent most of the rest of the day just cuddled up under a sleeping bag on the settee together.
There is nothing wrong with his appetite.
The doctor was a bit worried about it becoming infected, and skin damage over his knuckles, so we just have to wait and see.
He has to return to the hospital on Monday afternoon to be reviewed. I hope it will be looking much better by then.
So that's what happened yesterday.
I better go and make a start on the washing and ironing, and maybe get a bit of housework done. It will depend on how Adam is when he wakes.
Right, a cup of tea first I think. :)
Thank you for all your best wishes and for keeping Adam in your prayers. You don't know how much that means to me. You are the best. I am indeed Blessed. Thank you.
Carolxx
12 comments:
Still sending up prayers for Adams hand. Helen
I am sorry to hear about Adam's accident. You only have to turn your back for a moment and something happens. My daughter suffered burns as a baby (at the dentist with boiling water from their steriliser), so I know what you are going through, and also know the treatment is much better nigh on 40 years later.
Hugs to you both
Mary
oh, i am so sorry about Adam! poor thing. I wonder what he did to burn it that badly....if nothing else, i bet he never reaches around a fire to get anything else.
Ihope you guys have a restful day. especially adam!
hugs
tina
Carol, You have to try and not blame yourself. I know that is probably easier said than done but it was an accident. It is awful that the wee soul had to wait so long. I hope you all get a good night's sleep tonight. You are in my thought's. Love Pam xx
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A freak accident, you couldn't do it again if you tried it a million times... Hope he won't suffer permanent damage.
Don't blame yourself... you do the right things.. accidents happen. If he did infact reach over the guard, he learned a very valuable lesson.. probably wasn't even thinking about anything other then the plane. Not sure I know... how old is he? Hopefully he will feel a bit better today. Sending good thoughts and prayers.
hugs
d
You can't blame yourself, accidents happen. Focus on his healing and getting better. I feel so bad for him, I hope he heals well & quickly.
Lisa
Burs are terrible and accidents do happen Carol.When I was a young girl my sister caught fire with her nightdress.when coal fires were popular my father being a collier.We didn't have the fireguard there at the time.she was just standing in front asking dad something.Whe the flames drew her nightdress in.My mother and father both were burnt terribly on the hands she was burned all over ,they burned there hands trying to die her out.It was the only time I ever had off school,out of four years . I had to do everything.Strange I was going to write a rhyme on this subject only this weekend.But I havn't felt well and finding it hard to comment even.Don't blame yourself and I do hope Adam and yoursleves have a restful night tonight.Burns are awful things for pain.Prayers being said Adams hand soon heals.Take Care God Bless Kath astoriasand http://journals.aol.co.uk/astoriasand/MYSIMPLERHYMES
There is never any sane logic to why kids do what they do. As everyone else has echoed here the blame doesn't lay with you. Accidents happen and burns do heal. When I was younger my younger brother shoved me into the stove, The pot the boiling water was in, was wobbly and shouldn't have been used...in any event it tilted over and I was scalded all over my back and shoulders. Who would of foreseen that one happening? I don't have any permanent scarring and it was chalked up to kids being kids. I continue to keep Adams in my prayers on the smoke, that his healing is swift and without so much pain. (Hugs) Indigo
hope everything works out ok
Deb
Gosh i sure hope he will be ok..boys huh? he probably tried to get the airplane out the fire without thinking..bless him...
Take care..
Lyn
Poor baby! Burns are the worse! My Gabby burned her hand this year on the iron...it was cooling down but still hot when she walked by and accidently swung her hand and hit it. The whole top of her hand was burned...the doctors acted funny when we saw them too and I kept feeling like they thought I burned her, it was awful. Thank goodness it healed okay and she just has a tiny scar. Hang in there!
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